i really hope all the past avatars hang out and gossip like the ancestors in mulan
I’m already dreading exams,..
ARE YOU WITH THE RIGHT PARTNER?
During a seminar, a woman asked,” How do I know if I am with the right person?”
The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, “It depends. Is that your partner?”
In all seriousness, she answered “How did you know?”
“Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it’s weighing on your mind.” replied the author.
Here’s the answer:
Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn’t hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn’t have to DO anything. That’s why it’s called “falling” in love.
People in love sometimes say, I was swept of my feet. Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.
Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It’s a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.
Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse’s idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, “Am I with the right person?” And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone
else. This is when relationships breakdown.
The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the person you found.
People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.
Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.
I’m not saying that you couldn’t fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you’d feel better. But you’d be in the same situation a few years later.
Because (listen carefully to this)
The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the Person you found.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know
WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.
Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.
Love is therefore a “decision”. Not just a feeling.
Remember this always: the universe determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go!
why doesn’t this have more notes
This is so serious. If you care about someone, fucking care about them. Remember it every day. Remember it on bad days especially. Remember it in fights. Remember it when you’re happy. Appreciate it. Love it. Be it. Live it. Feel it. Cause you have no idea when it will be gone. There are only so many chances. And if you do forget and you do something stupid. You’d better fucking fight for it, fucking fight as hard as you can. As hard as you can doesn’t mean until it is a detriment to you, but until you’re sure it won’t be. True love will always be true love and if you lose it, you’re going to regret it.
I have no idea, but I felt like this belonged on here for some reason.
I really like this c:
First look at The Time of The Doctor in this trailer for the Doctor Who Christmas Special.
Premieres Christmas Day, December 25th 2013 at 9/8c on BBC America
December 25, 2013 at 8pm on Space (Canada)
December 25, 2013 at 7:30pm on BBC ONE (UK)
December 25, 2013 at 10pm on BBC HD Brasil (Brazil)
December 26, 2013 at 7:30pm on ABC1 (Australia)
December 26, 2013 at 8:30pm on Prime (New Zealand)
favorite scene per episode: season 3 [3.11]
3.11 - blink
This is one of the most telling parts of the movie. I mean, this is a fourteen year old girl who has just been chased out of her home by a woman trying to kill her into an uncharted part of the woods, with no supplies and nowhere to go, and she’s ashamed of the fact she was noticeably upset instead of keeping her calm and cheerful demeanor. If even one of these things happened to me, I’d be too busy freaking out to have any concern for the fact I fight have frightened a rabbit or two. Still don’t understand how people can think she’s a weak princess. You go Snow White.
And the song she sings next (“With a Smile and a Song”) goes along with showing how strong she is. “There’s no use in grumbling when raindrops come tumbling, remember you’re the one who can fill the world with sunshine.” She realizes that she has to be able to make herself happy because she can’t trust anyone to do it for her. YOU have to take the initiative and decide to be happy. She understands that no one is going to coddle her and say “oh poor Snow White here let me give you things to make you happy blah blah blah”. And crying about it isn’t going to change the fact that it’s happening. I mean, no one can convince me this 14 year old girl isn’t smart or brave.
this was literally the episode before he was revealed why didn’t they just increase it by one as a bit of foreshadowing or something